Ryan Dempsey's Bucket List - Please Tread Lightly

What I'm about to do is very scary. I've always been an extremely goal oriented person. Since I was a kid writing out Christmas wish lists for Santa Claus, I've always written down the things I want and the things I plan on doing. It's been a huge part of any success I've achieved in my life thus far. But I've always been private about my dreams and aspirations. I don't know why. Perhaps I fear ridicule. Perhaps it's because of all the nay sayers out there who make a life's work out of dissuading people from pursuing their goals. However I've changed my way of thinking in recent years. I believe more so now, that there are more good people out there willing to offer up encouragement and constructive advice that will help me in my endeavors. I also believe and have learned of the positive effects of accountability. Now that people know what I want, there will be more people around too keep tabs on my progress. That may be just the motivation I need stay focused and get things done.

I've already seen many, many goals achieved in my life. I've played in bands, traveled, flown airplanes and gliders, surfed, raced cars, married the woman of my dreams, started a family and become my own boss. To be honest, I'm quite satisfied. But since I'm not dead yet, I might as well spend the rest of my days to the fullest. I'm not through yet.

Here's my bucket list, in no particular order.

  1. Record a music album
  2. Play a screaming guitar solo through a Marshall Stack in front of a live audience
  3. Ride a race bike on a real race course
  4. Drag race
  5. Get barreled
  6. Hang ten
  7. African safari
  8. Compete in an aerobatics competition
  9. Fly a Pitts Special
  10. Visit Omaha and Juno Beach, Normandy, France
  11. Shoot a machine gun
  12. Compete in a practical shooting competition
  13. Drive from New York to L.A. in a supercar as fast as possible
  14. Learn to speak a few languages
  15. Go to a World Cup Match
  16. Watch a Formula 1 race
  17. Drive in a rally race
  18. Go heli-boarding
  19. Fly a bush plane in Alaska
  20. Go to the Super Bowl
  21. Hike the West Coast Trail
  22. Gamble in Vegas
  23. Study a Martial Art
  24. Get my dive license
  25. Swim with sharks
  26. Stay in the Philippines long enough to learn to hold a conversation in Tagalog
  27. Read the Bible cover to cover (Read it multiple times already though never from cover to cover)
  28. Play a gig in a Beatles cover band
  29. Keynote a conference
  30. Play a gig with a Rush coverband
  31. Play a gig with a Led Zeppelin coverband
  32. Watch the Seattle Seahawks play (Why haven't I done this yet?)
  33. Spend a weekend in Paris with Tegan
  34. Visit an Irish Pub in Ireland and drink Guinness with Irish people while listening to celtic music
  35. See the Great Pyramid
  36. See Petra
  37. Hike and raft through the Amazon
  38. Holiday in Italy with Tegan
  39. Drink Vodka in the winter time in Russia with Russians
  40. Play a chess tournament and win at least one game
  41. Attend the Olympic Games
  42. Swim with dolphins
  43. Sky Dive
  44. Go to space (It can happen. Virgin Galactic.)
  45. Be an extra in a movie
  46. Get paid to speak
  47. Ride a camel in Egypt
  48. Drink beer at Oktoberfest in Munich
  49. Cliched shower in a paradise waterfall with Tegan (Need the washboard abs first though. :P)
  50. Drive the autobahn
  51. Smoke a freshly rolled Cuban cigar in Cuba
  52. Scuba dive the Great Barrier Reef
  53. Ride in a hot air balloon
  54. Attend a huge music festival
  55. Visit the Holy Land
  56. Learn to play Golf somewhat decently
  57. Watch a Stanley Cup Game
  58. Set foot on each of the Seven continents
  59. Jam at a real Blues bar in Chicago
  60. Write a novel, get published
  61. Volunteer abroad for at least a month without pay
  62. Go sailing
  63. Ride a Harley down the Pacific Coast Highway
  64. Surf in Hawaii
  65. Walk down Abbey Road
  66. Drive the Nurburgring in a Porsche 911
  67. Visit the Great Wall of China
  68. Walk, dance and kiss with Tegan in the rain
  69. Surf Vancouver Island
  70. Shoot a Sniper Rifle (at a paper target, I must say)
  71. Pay off the debts of one of my friends for nothing in return
  72. Buy a house and a car for my Mom
  73. Spend way too much money on one musical instrument
  74. Debate with a cult leader in front of his own congregation
  75. Visit the Taj Mahal
  76. Get inked (But only if I find something truly meaningful and significant)
  77. Drive at least 200 miles an hour at the Bonneville Salt flats
  78. Land a kickflip
  79. Do a back flip on a trampoline
  80. Learn to ride a vert ramp
  81. Grab some big air on a snowboard
  82. Take the kids to Disneyland
  83. Take a race care driving course
  84. Take Ashton on a fishing trip
  85. Get Ashton into Go Karting (If he wants to of course. He better.)
  86. Plant a garden in my backyard
  87. Build a tree house for my kids
  88. Fly in to Oshkosh with an experimental airplane
  89. Watch the Reno Air Races
  90. Be ok at Poker
  91. Do a handstand
  92. Learn to tumble
  93. Take a trip around the world
  94. Juggle four balls
  95. Race Targa Newfoundland
  96. Climb Kilamanjaro
  97. Run a marathon
  98. Join a boxing gym
  99. Fly a Warbird
  100. Ride a military fighter jet (The Russians will let me)
  101. See my kids realize their dreams

Woah. Now that I look at it. That's a huge list. I fear I'm just setting myself up for one epic mid life crisis! I've got a lot of work to do.

If you can in anyway help me in achieving any of these goals, wether by or a simple word of encouragement, to lending me your jet airplane, I'd so love to hear from you. Do we have any mutual goals? Maybe we can do these together. What do you think?

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